A Nearly Normal Family

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of sexual assault.

Stella, one of the novel’s three narrators and its protagonist, is a multifaceted, highly intelligent character who often grapples with boredom, which fuels her thrill-seeking and rebellious nature. Described as “flapping her wings without taking off” (13), Stella has a restless spirit, perpetually in pursuit of something more profound and meaningful. Her character arc is marked by this struggle for self-identity and autonomy, as she wrestles with The Weight of Expectations imposed upon her by both her family and society at large.

The novel introduces Stella through the perceptions of other characters—particularly her father, Adam. To him, she appears antagonistic, characterized by her rebellious and impulsive actions. Part 2 offers a more nuanced understanding of her character by revealing her inner thoughts and motivations. For example, Stella’s fascination with psychopathy and her tendency to question her own nature demonstrate a level of self-awareness that is rare for her age. Shirine uses Stella’s interest in psychology to gain insight into her and prompt self-reflection. Similarly, titles like The Catcher in the Rye enable Stella to analyze and make sense of her internal world. However, Stella’s intelligence and self-awareness are juxtaposed with her lack of worldly wisdom.