The Collected Regrets of Clover

General Impressions

Gather initial thoughts and broad opinions about the book.

1. What were your overall impressions of Clover as a character and of her role as a death doula?

2. The relationships between Clover and her mother and Clover and Frances are emotional and complex. What aspects of Clover’s journey with each character did you enjoy the most? What did you enjoy the least?

3. Consider The Midnight Library by Matt Haig. How do both books grapple with the complexities of death, acceptance, and healing from regret?

Personal Reflection and Connection

Encourage readers to connect the book’s themes and characters with their personal experiences.

1. The death of Frances is a pivotal moment for Clover that propels her to heal more fully. Have you experienced a significant loss of any kind that led you to reexamine an aspect of yourself?

2. Clover’s relationship with her mother begins to heal in part because Clover accepts her mother for who she is, as well as owning her own role in the rift. Does their relationship mirror any relationship that you have experienced? What did this help you learn about yourself?

3. Can you envision yourself working as a death doula? What would be the most challenging and rewarding aspects of this career?

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